Do you have regrets? Should you? Our first inclination is a resounding "no!"... but maybe we should! Society encourages us to live a “no regrets” lifestyle, but this week we explore why they might actually be an integral part of life and the most common regrets people typically have.
Read MoreThis week we are having a very necessary and often avoided conversation about S-E-X. Dr. Stasia Gorden joins us on the Bouch to talk all about sex: how to create brave spaces for exploration and vulnerability with our partners, ways to keep the spark or reignite a relationship, 3 keys to great sex, and the underlying reasons why so many struggle with owning their sexuality.
Read MoreAre you a people-pleaser? Before you say no, run through this checklist with us. This week, we explore what people-pleasing looks like in our everyday lives, why we do it, and ways to break from the habit.
Read MoreDo you know how to feel your feelings? We often suppress our feelings without even thinking about it. This week, we explore why this is so hard, how we can retrain ourselves to honor our feelings, and discuss 6 tangible steps to help us experience our feelings without over-intellectualizing them or brushing them off.
Read MoreHow do we begin to figure out our needs? And then how do we own them? This week, we explore some exercises to help you get clear on your needs.
Read MoreWe can’t see the future, but according to the Gottman Institute, there are 4 predictors to tell if your relationship is doomed with over 90%+ accuracy. This week, we dive into the 4 horsemen, as they call them, their causes, practical examples, and how they impact you and your relationship. But don’t worry, if you do have any of these, we explore the antidotes and practical applications too.
Read MoreDifficult conversations are something we all wish we could avoid, but we cant. So how do we actually get better at difficult conversations? This week, we need to talk, and we’ll be discussing the anxiety and other factors holding us back and exploring a simple framework to help you feel more confident starting or having these difficult conversations.
So often we focus on others: their actions, how they are affecting us, and what they need to do to make amends or make us feel better. We often try to change or control things, people, and external circumstances. In reality, the best way to heal and move forward productively is to worry about yourself, first and foremost.
Read MoreJust because you’re feeling lonely, it doesn’t mean that you are different or weird. In fact, it means that you have more in common with the people around you than you realize. In this episode,e we are going to talk about feeling like you’re alone. This week we discuss feeling alone.
Read MoreThis week is about exploring the concept of beginner’s mind: what it is, how to apply the framework to your life, and what you can gain when you commit yourself to being curious staying open to what’s possible.
Read MoreThis episode is about gaslighting. We have started to see the term used more, but what is it, how are we doing it, and how can we identify when we’re a victim of it?
Read MoreWhat is decolonizing therapy? How does decolonizing apply to mindsets and relationships? This week we are hype to have licensed marriage and family therapist Dr. Sandra Espinoza grace the couch and share her expertise on decolonization, how it is currently being implemented in therapy and in education, and how it can elevate our personal growth and therapy sessions. With 10+ years experience as a marriage and couples therapist, Dr. Espinoza also gives her top 3 keys to building a strong foundation in a relationship.
Read MoreStop forcing. Start flowing. Oftentimes, forcing anything brings about the exact opposite of our desired outcome and limits our possibilities… not to mention adds compounding stress to ourselves and whatever or whoever it is that we’re trying to force. Why do we try to force things?
Read MoreIf you want to have deeper conversations, this episode is for you! Giving advice can be great, but how can we be better coaches, friends, mentors, and resources for those around us? Tune in this week to learn a framework to help you remain curious in conversations and help provide the space for people to develop their own ideas and solutions.
Read MoreHow do you define a successful relationship? How do you make it last while pursuing your goals and supporting your partner’s? In this episode, we chat with Sanford and Anastasia Williams to learn some keys to a happy and successful relationship.
Read MoreNobody is an island. Everybody needs help from someone at some point or another and we all know it; then why is it hard for us to ask?
Networking can be shallow, overwhelming, and a waste of time, or it can be the key to your next big client or opportunity! It’s all in how you do it.
Read MoreConflict has a bad rep, but it’s necessary. Conflict is an important building block for relationships and key to personal development. This week, we discuss the importance of conflict, explore conflict management styles, and give some tactical tips to help you improve in the heat of the moment.
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